Are You a Boss or a Leader? 8 Common Traits of a Bully Boss
Are You a Boss or a Leader? 8 Common Traits of a Bully Boss
he words “boss” and “leader” are often used interchangeably, but have big differences in management style; leaders at Vistage claim that “those who have made the journey from one to the other understand these key differences.”
In the 1950s, an MIT management professor, Douglas McGregor drew on the famous psychological concept of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. In short, the hierarchy of needs explains that humans must feel safe, loved, and have esteem before they can grow. McGregor used this concept to theorize two major differences in management style he calls: Theory X and Theory Y.
According to McGregor, Theory-X style managers avoid responsibility, have little ambition, and are motivated by their own interests and goals. This type of management style hinders employee satisfaction and ignores employee’s need for growth in their own professional lives. Theory-Y style managers enjoy the work they do, are always looking for opportunities to grow, and assume their employees are internally motivated. McGregor believed that Theory-Y managers could motivate their employees to reach their fullest potential. This theory created a clear division and comparison between the boss and the leader.
In simple terms, Theory X managers are “bosses”. They dictate, control, dominate, and intimidate their employees. They often make decisions for the team with little or no input from their employees. Theory Y managers are leaders, and good ones at that. They teach, trust, and inspire. True leaders always aim for their team to be successful, allow for experimentation, fresh ideas, and even failure. Leaders celebrate their employees’ success and don’t take credit for it.
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Are you a boss or a leader? Vistage notes these as the eight key differences between the two.
Bosses deflect mistakes, leaders own them
As said in the leadership book “Extreme Ownership” by Jacko Willink and Leif Babin, there are “no bad teams, only bad leaders.” An alternative definition for a boss: a bad leader.
Bosses command, leaders teach
Leaders want their employees to understand the task at hand, they teach, and create a culture of two-way communication – allowing employees to feel comfortable asking questions.
Bosses micromanage, leaders trust and delegate
Bosses create to-do lists for their employees and hover over them as they complete it, leaders trust their employees to create and work through their own to-do lists.
Bosses are authoritative, leaders are influencers
Leaders persuade their team toward a common goal, communicate effectively, and have empathy with their people. When bosses use authority to lead, they might get results, but they won’t see that same trust and growth in their employees and their company’s mission.
Bosses have big egos, leaders are self-assured
Bosses are worried about looking good to their own bosses. Leaders trust in themselves that they will. They focus on ensuring their teams and work is up to par and are humble enough to know that the next mistake or obstacle is around the corner.
Bosses think short-term, leaders think long-term
Good leaders think big-picture and don’t waste their energy focusing on what might happen today. While leaders should account for the present, they want to be sure that they are working toward something good next quarter.
Bosses want credit, leaders give credit
A leader wants their team to succeed and get credit for their own achievements. In the book, “The Effective Executive” by Peter Drucker, “leaders who work most effectively think ‘we’; they think ‘team’. This is what creates trust and enables you and your team to get the task done.”
Bosses foster fear, leaders build confidence
Bosses want their teams to fear failure whereas leaders know that failure is a part of the process to success. They work to build their team’s confidence while staying on the right track.
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